Before going on retreats it can be helpful to make a commitment. For example, to do your very best no matter what conditions you find yourself in.
In Buddhism they talk about the 5 hindrances to successful meditation practice:
- Thinking about sex and wanting to stimulate the senses. For example, by eating your favorite food.
- Anger and irritation
- Laziness and boredom
- Restlessness
- Doubts about your practice and abilities
Anyone can see that the 5 hindrances could make it almost impossible to stay focused on your meditation practice. So, by making a commitment you're less likely to be caught like a fish in the net.
Everyone has their weak points and most of us know what to work on. It does take a measure of discipline to complete a
meditation retreat successfully and the five hindrances nicely sum up what to look out for.
It can be helpful to remind yourself why you're doing the retreat and what you want to get out of it.
Here's a list of retreat no-nos:
- Don't chat up other retreatants
- Don't entertain sexual fantasizes
- Don't give in to laziness and boredom
- Don't get involved in discussions and arguments
Meditation Retreat Tips
If you feel restless, do more walking meditation.
If you have a hard time staying awake, take a short nap.
If you get sick, do your very best to accept it right away. The opposite would be to resist like a child who can't have an ice cream after the corner store has closed. That would only through you off course. Instead, learn to accept every moment as it is.
Don't spend the entire retreat doubting in your abilities. It's better to leave the thinking for when you get back home.
Your attitude matters a lot too. Therefore, view the retreat as a golden opportunity to deepen your meditation practice. Take on a measure of discipline and you'll be just fine.
I often point out to meditators that they shouldn't push themselves. To me, meditation is about giving relaxed attention to the meditation object, without trying too hard which only leads to stiff shoulders and frustration.
Your level of success relies heavily on your ability to cultivate mindfulness throughout the day, so don't engage in unnecessary conversation. Rather, give relaxed attention to everything you do. May it be eating, walking or washing your hands.
Feel free to email me about your personal experiences of
meditation retreats.
Best of luck!
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